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Wedding planning without the bidding war.

Photographers, venues, dresses, florists, cakes, DJs — one card at a time. Save the ones you like. Message them when you're actually ready to talk. That's the whole thing.

One email when the deck opens in your city. Nothing else.

What it looks like

Cards. Not search results.

You pick a category. We give you one card at a time. Tap the heart, tap the X. The saves pile up in your list — go back to them tonight, next week, whenever. Nothing expires. Nobody pings you.

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Stone Hollow Barn

Beacon, NY · 28 mi

$11,000 – $18,000

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How it works

01 find

You tell us where you're getting married. We give you the vendors in your area, one card at a time. By category.

02 save

Heart the ones you want to remember. They live in your list until you do something with them. Or don't.

03 reach out

When you're ready, send a message. The vendor gets an email and replies. No portals. No 24-hour countdowns.

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Impressions318people who saw you
Saves46right swipes
Save rate34%of 134 swipes
Contacts7last 7 days

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For wedding people

The other sites turned getting found into an auction.

We don't do that. Every vendor pays the same flat fee. Every couple in your area sees your card — in whatever order our matching thinks fits them, not in whatever order you paid for. If you take a good photo and write honestly, that's enough.

Free while we're building out the deck. $39.99/month after launch.